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How do you do?



As part of her Garden of Gratitude series, this week Saumya is asking her readers “How are you feeling?”

In my part of the world, asking people how they are doing is just a formal greeting we exchange a hundred times a day. A politeness we throw at each other when we meet people throughout the day, rarely caring about the answer. The same way, we don’t both answering the question sincerely. We reply ”fine” without conviction, because we don’t want to share deeper feelings, and quite honestly, we know that the other person isn’t interested in talking about it.

I realized that ”How are you” automatism when I got interested in Denmark. When you learn a language, one of the first things we learn is how to ask how an other person is doing. In Danish,ย Hvordan gรฅr det? But Danes rarely use it lightly. The question comes with a real desire to know how you are feeling, and usually requires a sincere answer.

I like that. A lot more than our much shallower version.

So… How am I feeling? Pretty good, actually. I’ve only ten days to go, before getting an almost month long vacation. We’re planning a killer trip to Australia, and other surprises should get revealed when we’ll be back in Montrรฉal.

I’m keeping a positive attitude, and it seems to pay off. Just yesterday, my little brother offered to take us to the airport without being asked. Getting a lift was one of our main worries, because we couldn’t go catch our flight by our own means, since someone has to keep our winter coats and boots while we are away… It would be silly to take them to a country in the middle of its summer. And we couldn’t just leave them home, and freeze on our way to the airport. Problem solved!

I feel like 2020 will be a good year. I am confident that good things are coming my way. I am healthy, I have enough money to live comfortably, I have great people around me…

And you? How do you do? How do you really do?


5 thoughts on “How do you do?

  1. Thank you for participating Cyranny! That was exactly my point. We don’t really care what the other person replies. And our own responses are also casual. I’m glad that you’re doing good and having a positive attitude. I think it has something to do with the ‘lucky’ challenge that you mentioned in one of your posts.
    Are you done with your packing? How long will you trip be?

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    1. It was a pleasure, Saumya ๐Ÿ™‚ Your Garden of Gratitude really spoke to me!

      I recommend the ”positive thinking” challenge to anyone. What’s the worst thing that can happen? That nothing happens? ๐Ÿ˜› But in my case, it really seems to be working out. And I’m not going to complain about that ๐Ÿ˜‰

      I’ll be starting to gather everything we’ll need for the trip during the weekend. I won’t be packing just yet, because we’re just taking our backpacks, so it will be quickly done. We’ll spend three weeks in Australia, and I am soooo excited about all the amazing things we’ll do and see ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m already counting the days left before take off!

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      1. Haha yes. Positive thinking is great. Even if nothing happens, at least I’m not thinking bad ๐Ÿ˜‚ just backpacks for 3 weeks? Means lots of shopping in Australia ๐Ÿ˜‰


    1. Thank you, Suze ๐Ÿ™‚ We’ll be very cautious, especially with the coronavirus spreading. I’m not letting Chรฉri get sick… Mouahhahhahahah And I will take tons of pictures to share during and after our trip. This will be a very special adventure ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

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