I was invited (well, not personally, but still…) to join the Fandango’s Friday Flashback!
Fandango scrolls back, every Friday, and gives a second chance to a post he had published on the same date the year before. I thought it was a great way to remember some of the stuff I did a while back, and I decided to participate…
So here it is!
Previously posted on February 19th of 2019, here is a little piece of blogger wisdom. It still feel like a newbie, but this has been one of my most popular posts for some reason. I hope you’ll enjoy it (again). And wherever you are, stay safe and well!
There are two main types of bloggers.
Those of us who wear a mask. Bloggers who use a nickname, never show themselves, and avoid giving up personal information. Though we know a ”real” person stands behind the character, we never get to truly know these mysterious people.
Then there are bloggers who write under their real name, don’t hesitate to show their face, and share their personal life on a weekly basis.
Both are fine ways to go, and they have their advantages.
I think I stand somewhere in between. I use a nickname, and (very) rarely post pictures of myself. But I have shared a good deal of informations about my life in The Cove.
I think that defining if you want to be anonymous as a blogger is an important thing to ponder when you decide to join the bloggosphere. Because unless you really have no filter, and don’t mind at all what other people think, it will eventually affect what you can or cannot talk about in your blog.
When I started up, a little over three years ago, I thought I never would have to censor myself. I never told my family, friends or co-workers that I was starting a blog. I didn’t want to have to worry about how my mom, my boss or my neighbour would interpret this or that story or piece of poetry.
But as time passed by, and with the number of people I interact with growing, I realized I had to be cautious about what I posted.
That’s probably why I drifted more on the fiction side. Fiction allows me to write pretty much anything I want without fear of hurting anyone’s feelings.
I don’t think I am a bad person, but I did happen to catch some bitter reactions to personal things I had shared. On blogs I visited frequently, from people I considered blogging-friends. Exceptions, really… But still, I didn’t like reading these things.
I know some of you would say ”Don’t mind these people!” But I just can’t.
I just care too much.
This probably just seems like some rambling, but what I mean to say is that if you are starting as a blogger, or if you are considering starting a blog, think about it. Because it is a fine line between writing what you want, and writing what you can.
If you have a tough skin, go ahead, say whatever you want.
If you are soft hearted, think twice….
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