Sure. In high school once. He was Valedictorian when he graduated, and lets say… I was not. The only thing we had in common was we were both quick witted and loved to joke around.
Oh, defintiely! We lasted a good 10-11 months. He was actually my first real boyfriend (meaning time spent together). But, he was “Mama’s Boy” if you could catch my drift, and I didn’t fit the criteria of equalling that of his mother. (Slightly twisted). LOL! 🤣
Yes, and it was a disaster. I’m still not over it and it was 3 years ago. He only used me for sex, which I don’t even understand since he could have easily gotten that anywhere.
Well that sure sucks! I am sure karma will take care of him, but of course, that will not help with your harsh feelings. 😦 I hope time will help forget him…
Yes, back in college. At least I perceived him to be out of my league back then. I had some self-esteem issues that lead me to believe that I wasn’t worthy. We’re still friends, but that took awhile to get there.
You bring a good point here… I wonder if the times this happened to me, it was just a matter of low self esteem. But the last time, although I didn’t ”date” that man, I learnt (too late, LOL) that he would have liked to date me. He was a 10 on all aspects, good looking, intelligent, hard working, kind and funny… We’re still in touch too, but we’ll never know what being together could have been like 😛
Wow, you have an impressive bouquet of them 😉 I understand every easily how feeling like you needed to be perfect, dealing with celebrity, and having to put up with luxurious tastes can be too much pression to bare.
But I have a feeling that Goldfinch is a keeper… you two are in a league of your own, for sure, and I hope we’ll learn soon that he’ll come to see you again, or the other way around 🙂 🙂 🙂 Oh, and you didn’t say too much, but I wouldn’t say more if I was you LOL
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Sure. In high school once. He was Valedictorian when he graduated, and lets say… I was not. The only thing we had in common was we were both quick witted and loved to joke around.
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I’m sure you had more in common than that 😉 But the important is that you shared good times together, which I am sure you did 🙂
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Oh, defintiely! We lasted a good 10-11 months. He was actually my first real boyfriend (meaning time spent together). But, he was “Mama’s Boy” if you could catch my drift, and I didn’t fit the criteria of equalling that of his mother. (Slightly twisted). LOL! 🤣
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Oh yeah! Nearly all of those I dated. I married the one most out of my league, somehow. 😃
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Oh you Sonofa 😉 You’re definately a charmer, and I am not surprised that these lovely ladies fell for your ways!
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😊😊
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Yes, and it was a disaster. I’m still not over it and it was 3 years ago. He only used me for sex, which I don’t even understand since he could have easily gotten that anywhere.
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Well that sure sucks! I am sure karma will take care of him, but of course, that will not help with your harsh feelings. 😦 I hope time will help forget him…
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Thank you 💜
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Yes, back in college. At least I perceived him to be out of my league back then. I had some self-esteem issues that lead me to believe that I wasn’t worthy. We’re still friends, but that took awhile to get there.
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You bring a good point here… I wonder if the times this happened to me, it was just a matter of low self esteem. But the last time, although I didn’t ”date” that man, I learnt (too late, LOL) that he would have liked to date me. He was a 10 on all aspects, good looking, intelligent, hard working, kind and funny… We’re still in touch too, but we’ll never know what being together could have been like 😛
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No, I have terrible taste or a massive ego 😉
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I don’t know why… But I would go for ”massive ego” and I don’t see that as something negative 😉 xx
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:-p
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Where do I begin?
Jammy was as close to perfect as any man I have known. I made myself ill trying to be his perfect woman.
Jack was a celebrity. I couldn’t cope with the level of interest that came my way because of him.
I had a boyfriend who was very wealthy and had a taste for lavish, luxurious trash. It was the reason I ended it.
Goldfinch is frankly gorgeous and amazing on an intimate level (have I said too much? 🤐)
And as for all the other men I dated, I decided I was clearly in a league of my own. Told them politely that they should sling their hooks.
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Wow, you have an impressive bouquet of them 😉 I understand every easily how feeling like you needed to be perfect, dealing with celebrity, and having to put up with luxurious tastes can be too much pression to bare.
But I have a feeling that Goldfinch is a keeper… you two are in a league of your own, for sure, and I hope we’ll learn soon that he’ll come to see you again, or the other way around 🙂 🙂 🙂 Oh, and you didn’t say too much, but I wouldn’t say more if I was you LOL
*big hugs*
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Thank you!
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Goldfinch is the one I want.
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No. I suppose that means I am an intellectual snob and a several other sorts of snob as well.
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I really doubt that you are snob in any way, Anne 🙂 I think you just have good self-esteem, and that’s a really good thing, if you ask me!
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🤣
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Nope… never
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Yes. My first girlfriend. And she married me. 😉
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