No. I (apparently, I’ve never given my own demeanor that much attention) look angry, mean, disgruntled, crabby. Most thoughtful folk give me a wide berth.
I think so. I have manners, so that certainly helps. Catch me on the wrong day, though, and all bets are off. The older I get, the less I give a shit if I’m liked or not, so there’s that too. 😃
I agree that aging has an effect on how much we care about making a good first impression. I know I get more and more selective about who I make an effort for 😛
I have no doubt about that… If half of your good nature shows on your face when you meet new people, I can only imagine you make a great first impression on people 🙂 As long as they don’t have anything to do with The Troll 😛 Mouahahahaha
It’s a 50-50 kinda think with me. If it’s a professional environment I’d give a good impression. But when it comes to making friends out there, I’m quite shy. So many people find that I am an overly extrovert person.
Same here, funny, wouldn’t you say? Making more efforts to look like a good person for a boss, when friends are so much more important 😛 Then again, friends should take us as we are… Maybe that’s part of the reason 😛 Also, friends don’t pay bills!
Shyness is a big obstacle… And that’s too bad, because you are one sweet person! I hope most people go past that maybe not so good first impression 🙂 xx
I have to say ,in all honesty, that what sort of first impression I give is not something that has ever given me pause to think about it. So either I have gone through life giving an ok one or not….I don’t know.
If you never needed to think about it, I am guessing that you are giving a good first impression. Because you’d probably have wondered why people weren’t naturally friendly with you, in the past, if you weren’t 🙂
No. I (apparently, I’ve never given my own demeanor that much attention) look angry, mean, disgruntled, crabby. Most thoughtful folk give me a wide berth.
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You are a well hidden gem, then 😉 A proof that you should never judge a book by its cover! xx
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I think so. I have manners, so that certainly helps. Catch me on the wrong day, though, and all bets are off. The older I get, the less I give a shit if I’m liked or not, so there’s that too. 😃
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I agree that aging has an effect on how much we care about making a good first impression. I know I get more and more selective about who I make an effort for 😛
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Hahaha! Exactly. 😏
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Nope 😁🙋♀️🐝🌻
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LOL That’s pretty straight to the point 😛 And why do you think so?
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😁 because I am rather shy at the beginning and I think people get the impression I am arrogant. 🙋♀️🐝
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Definitely!
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I have no doubt about that… If half of your good nature shows on your face when you meet new people, I can only imagine you make a great first impression on people 🙂 As long as they don’t have anything to do with The Troll 😛 Mouahahahaha
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LMAO!!! So true. When I encouner the Troll, I usually resmeble that of Grumpy Cat. 😉 😊
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I have no idea what others think of me the first time they meet me. And to be honest, I don’t really care.
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🙂 As I grow older, I am less and less worried about it too. But I must admit there are still exceptions…
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It’s a 50-50 kinda think with me. If it’s a professional environment I’d give a good impression. But when it comes to making friends out there, I’m quite shy. So many people find that I am an overly extrovert person.
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Good point there, Saumya! I agree that for professional reasons, I make much more efforts 🙂
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I make a really good impression in a working environment..not so much when I am just hanging about.
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Same here, funny, wouldn’t you say? Making more efforts to look like a good person for a boss, when friends are so much more important 😛 Then again, friends should take us as we are… Maybe that’s part of the reason 😛 Also, friends don’t pay bills!
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I make a great first impression. Of course I used to work retail and the restaurant industry! 😂
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It is quite important when you work with the public 🙂
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True that! 😁
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Hehehe depends on what mood I’m in. I can charm the pants off you..sell ice to eskimos or appears cold and stern
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🙂 Do you have any control over it, or does it really depend on your mood?
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It depends on my mood 😊
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As hard as I try, I don’t think I’m good at giving first impressions. I think it’s mainly due to my childish looks and shyness.
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Shyness is a big obstacle… And that’s too bad, because you are one sweet person! I hope most people go past that maybe not so good first impression 🙂 xx
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Thank you. 🙂
If only first impressions is not based on looks, then I think I’d do fine. *sigh*
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I have to say ,in all honesty, that what sort of first impression I give is not something that has ever given me pause to think about it. So either I have gone through life giving an ok one or not….I don’t know.
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If you never needed to think about it, I am guessing that you are giving a good first impression. Because you’d probably have wondered why people weren’t naturally friendly with you, in the past, if you weren’t 🙂
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Good point!
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It kinda depends, in a work environment I come across as very professional, well turned out and polite.
Social, then I am my sarcastic, blunt usual self
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For the most part yes…but like everyone else, I have my moments – catch me when I am tired out and I don’t think I make much sense at all!
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